Post by daisy on Jun 4, 2009 23:37:45 GMT -5
Gay Men Are The New Oppressors Of Women
I’ve changed my mind about supporting gay men
in gaining any rights or status in our society.
For the past couple of years I’ve noticed
a disturbing trend of women being abused and oppressed and disrespected by gay men.
I’m seeing gay men attack women in the work place,
attacking them verbally and leaving them in dangerous situations simply because they hate women and view them as competition for mates. This blasphemy is the absolute last thing that women need, to have gay men making their lives more difficult.
I’ve repeatedly witnessed gay men disrespect and mistreat women by making passes at husbands and boyfriends, directing hostility and open aggression towards women and turning normal outings into stressful and hurtful excursions.
I can no longer support this minority because
they’re harming women and in a world that is already openly hateful of females, this is catastrophic.
As gay men gain power and status it’s at the expense of women; without female support for gay rights, queer men would never gain acceptance and now they’ve betrayed the very group that has helped them up. After the vile behaviour I’ve seen consistently exhibited by gay men towards women, they can go back into their miserable closets.
Over the past several years I’ve experienced and listened to my friends recount one hostile encounter after another with gay men,
the last straw was last week.
A good friend wrote me and told me that she went to a book store with her boyfriend of five years and the two of them found themselves being swarmed by several gay guys who followed her boyfriend around and physically bumped her aside and out of the way; her boyfriend is a shy, quiet man who didn’t quite know how to react except to grab her get out of the book store.
My friend said she felt reduced to a piece of expendable garbage and she felt attacked and unsafe; like being mugged in a New York back alley by a group of thugs.
I am disgusted and repulsed with gay men. This is one story in dozens like it and I think as a society and as women we may have made a mistake supporting gay men,
I think these self-serving, self-worshiping misogynists
manipulated females to get their own needs = men
and now their true colors are coming through.
Now that they’ve gotten what they want from women,
they’re throwing us away like a soiled rag.
A disturbing trend I’ve noticed is hostility in the work place from gay managers towards women; women are getting injured and their pleas for medical attention are ignored, male co-workers are sexually harassing women on the job and gay supervisors are
ignoring and even encouraging the behaviour
in order to remove women from the workplace entirely.
There is a blatant absence of any caring towards the safety and well being of women and a flagrant apathy towards female existence itself; I find it reprehensible and vulgar that gay men are jealous of women because they mate with men and then behaving in a way that harasses, frightens and hurts women.
We’ve created a monster, another enemy and now he needs to be shoved back into the dark recess of his ugliness.
The main reason I used to support gay rights is because
I wanted women protected from gay men who were closeted because they tend to abuse their wives and families; I wanted women to be safer in their domestic relationships.
The unintended consequence is that women are LESS safe in the world and LESS respected by the very group we helped free.
I’m fully aware there are sweet gay men but, not enough and the vast majority are a menace to womanhood and consequently a danger to children and I will not stand for that and I will not support that for another minute.
Posted by Rola Phoenicia at 8:37 AM
4 comments:
Anonymous said...
Amen sister !
I have a few gay friends, and I've noticed that when they FIRST come out, they treat you like you are wonderful because they are so thankful to have a friend hear them out and be accepting. However, once they get comfortable with their sexuality they treat you like garbage.
I have friends that are just so wrapped up in their gay lifestyle that he has truly forgotten about all of his friends (girls).
I have another friend who has become so cocky, and actually thinks it's wierd to be straight and believes homosexuality is normal.
In addition, he thinks he's the queen bee, and feels he can say whatever - whenever. It's actually gotten to the point where it's so disrespectful and nobody wants to be around him.
On the other hand, he's always been a loud mouth and thinks who the hell he is, but then again maybe it's because he was always gay. Then I have another friend who is just sooo boy crazy, and thinks just about every guy is gay. It can be a little insulting to the girls, because it's like umm that's my piece, he's straight!!! It's all just so annoying.
November 1, 2008 7:48 PM
Anonymous said...
I have been helping, feeding, housing, and caring for a young gay male for 3 years. He has cost me family relationships, respect, and an inordinate amount of time and money.
His behavior is exactly as described by another respondent,
cocky, elitist, entitled, etc.
He truly believes that the epidemic over the last 10 years of rising homosexuality statistics, is evolutionary population control. I almost laugh out loud when he describes a Utopic world populated by gay and lesbian intellectuals, and the straight morons who senselessly procreate, because they are stupid, causing the average IQ to go down to 60 in less than 300 years.
He honestly believes that a perfect HOT host mother will be there, ready, and willing to don stretch marks, prenatal risks, and discomforts. All this in order to give children to him, to raise with whatever partners are in the picture at any given time!
The statement that will now dissolve what was once a very close relationship, was that he didn't want girl children! Being female, and having two daughters of my own, I was deeply hurt!
His picture perfect life of two high powered, spoiled brats, driving around in expensive cars, and living "THE LIFE" is
just another case of using women as uteruses,
and hogging financial resources. This is a siuation which would continue to deprive women from equal pay.
He is a (using) womanizer
unlike any straight man I have ever known.
March 28, 2009 1:15 AM
Nicholas said...
Don't discriminate? You say gay men but it seems are talking about gay jerks
April 3, 2009 4:58 PM
Anonymous said...
Interesting post. I have experienced a lot of this --
gay men who hate women.
May 19, 2009 10:18 AM
www.rolaphoenicia.com/2008/04/gay-men-are-new-oppressors-of-women.html
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I’ve changed my mind about supporting gay men
in gaining any rights or status in our society.
For the past couple of years I’ve noticed
a disturbing trend of women being abused and oppressed and disrespected by gay men.
I’m seeing gay men attack women in the work place,
attacking them verbally and leaving them in dangerous situations simply because they hate women and view them as competition for mates. This blasphemy is the absolute last thing that women need, to have gay men making their lives more difficult.
I’ve repeatedly witnessed gay men disrespect and mistreat women by making passes at husbands and boyfriends, directing hostility and open aggression towards women and turning normal outings into stressful and hurtful excursions.
I can no longer support this minority because
they’re harming women and in a world that is already openly hateful of females, this is catastrophic.
As gay men gain power and status it’s at the expense of women; without female support for gay rights, queer men would never gain acceptance and now they’ve betrayed the very group that has helped them up. After the vile behaviour I’ve seen consistently exhibited by gay men towards women, they can go back into their miserable closets.
Over the past several years I’ve experienced and listened to my friends recount one hostile encounter after another with gay men,
the last straw was last week.
A good friend wrote me and told me that she went to a book store with her boyfriend of five years and the two of them found themselves being swarmed by several gay guys who followed her boyfriend around and physically bumped her aside and out of the way; her boyfriend is a shy, quiet man who didn’t quite know how to react except to grab her get out of the book store.
My friend said she felt reduced to a piece of expendable garbage and she felt attacked and unsafe; like being mugged in a New York back alley by a group of thugs.
I am disgusted and repulsed with gay men. This is one story in dozens like it and I think as a society and as women we may have made a mistake supporting gay men,
I think these self-serving, self-worshiping misogynists
manipulated females to get their own needs = men
and now their true colors are coming through.
Now that they’ve gotten what they want from women,
they’re throwing us away like a soiled rag.
A disturbing trend I’ve noticed is hostility in the work place from gay managers towards women; women are getting injured and their pleas for medical attention are ignored, male co-workers are sexually harassing women on the job and gay supervisors are
ignoring and even encouraging the behaviour
in order to remove women from the workplace entirely.
There is a blatant absence of any caring towards the safety and well being of women and a flagrant apathy towards female existence itself; I find it reprehensible and vulgar that gay men are jealous of women because they mate with men and then behaving in a way that harasses, frightens and hurts women.
We’ve created a monster, another enemy and now he needs to be shoved back into the dark recess of his ugliness.
The main reason I used to support gay rights is because
I wanted women protected from gay men who were closeted because they tend to abuse their wives and families; I wanted women to be safer in their domestic relationships.
The unintended consequence is that women are LESS safe in the world and LESS respected by the very group we helped free.
I’m fully aware there are sweet gay men but, not enough and the vast majority are a menace to womanhood and consequently a danger to children and I will not stand for that and I will not support that for another minute.
Posted by Rola Phoenicia at 8:37 AM
4 comments:
Anonymous said...
Amen sister !
I have a few gay friends, and I've noticed that when they FIRST come out, they treat you like you are wonderful because they are so thankful to have a friend hear them out and be accepting. However, once they get comfortable with their sexuality they treat you like garbage.
I have friends that are just so wrapped up in their gay lifestyle that he has truly forgotten about all of his friends (girls).
I have another friend who has become so cocky, and actually thinks it's wierd to be straight and believes homosexuality is normal.
In addition, he thinks he's the queen bee, and feels he can say whatever - whenever. It's actually gotten to the point where it's so disrespectful and nobody wants to be around him.
On the other hand, he's always been a loud mouth and thinks who the hell he is, but then again maybe it's because he was always gay. Then I have another friend who is just sooo boy crazy, and thinks just about every guy is gay. It can be a little insulting to the girls, because it's like umm that's my piece, he's straight!!! It's all just so annoying.
November 1, 2008 7:48 PM
Anonymous said...
I have been helping, feeding, housing, and caring for a young gay male for 3 years. He has cost me family relationships, respect, and an inordinate amount of time and money.
His behavior is exactly as described by another respondent,
cocky, elitist, entitled, etc.
He truly believes that the epidemic over the last 10 years of rising homosexuality statistics, is evolutionary population control. I almost laugh out loud when he describes a Utopic world populated by gay and lesbian intellectuals, and the straight morons who senselessly procreate, because they are stupid, causing the average IQ to go down to 60 in less than 300 years.
He honestly believes that a perfect HOT host mother will be there, ready, and willing to don stretch marks, prenatal risks, and discomforts. All this in order to give children to him, to raise with whatever partners are in the picture at any given time!
The statement that will now dissolve what was once a very close relationship, was that he didn't want girl children! Being female, and having two daughters of my own, I was deeply hurt!
His picture perfect life of two high powered, spoiled brats, driving around in expensive cars, and living "THE LIFE" is
just another case of using women as uteruses,
and hogging financial resources. This is a siuation which would continue to deprive women from equal pay.
He is a (using) womanizer
unlike any straight man I have ever known.
March 28, 2009 1:15 AM
Nicholas said...
Don't discriminate? You say gay men but it seems are talking about gay jerks
April 3, 2009 4:58 PM
Anonymous said...
Interesting post. I have experienced a lot of this --
gay men who hate women.
May 19, 2009 10:18 AM
www.rolaphoenicia.com/2008/04/gay-men-are-new-oppressors-of-women.html
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